#ListenUpNG Wk34: POLISH…AFTER SAYING ‘I DO’

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Hello everyone! Here are the compiled tweets for #ListenUpNG Wk34 with Nneoma Effanga. Missed the live tweetcast last week Friday? Worry not! #ReadRestRelaxAbdReflect on them here!

#DearWifeyNG If you truly want to up your game, spiritually, physically & psychologically, #ListenUpNG Wk34 is a must read!

My special guest is Nneoma otherwise called Omalicha. She’s all thing beautiful.???? Follow the motivating and inspiring tweets of this mother of three!

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Isn’t she looking gorgeous?

@nneomaeffanga1 is still looking ‘tush’ after years of marriage and she’s ready to share tips on how to remain so on #ListenUpNG Wk34????????

You can read more about @nneomaeffanga1 and our other guests on #ListenUpNG August Edition here????https://t.co/XxXcRN8UJT Fasten your seat belts. Let’s go…

Hello everyone and thank you for the opportunity to share on this platform #ListenUpNG

I’m truly honored and I want to thank you @KemiOdutayo for this amazing opportunity #ListenUpNG

Having said that, let’s get this show on the road…Lol!!
Let’s get down to business #ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @abbeysonprisca @BridgetElesin

The topic of our discourse today is “Polish..After I do” #ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @KemiOdutayo @Bunmi_Sobowale @uwasaleh @tosinpraise @nkyru

I believe we are going to have an amazing time together!! #ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @KemiOdutayo @Kemitalkin  @coachkemizack @abbeysonprisca

I wonder what it was like when we were young and dating…It must have been fun and full of excitement, wasn’t it? #ListenUpNG @Dabiraipoola

Its interesting to know that while dating we could go to any length to impress our dates at the time #ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @OroAdunni

Impress them in the way we look, our behavior and communication. we do everything within us to appear well put together #ListenUpNG @nkyru

we know how to use all the right words that connect us even at a deeper level of our relationships #ListenUpNG #DearWIfeyNG @praisefowowe

And at some point we begin to allude to ourselves that “He/She might just be the one I have been looking for all my life” #ListenUpNG

Does this sound like your story yet?? if not…Stay tuned…and follow me on this journey. #ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @anucruzz @KemiOdutayo

His looks, Her smiles. His charm, her grace…the list of what qualifies us is endless!!! #ListenUpNG @JephKing @abbeysonprisca @CessoKay

But all of those impressions over time drive us to the point where we realize…”I’m in love!!” Oh What a beautiful feeling!! #ListenUpNG

And finally that long awaited question is popped!! Full of nerves He asks “Will you marry me?”She can’t believe it! She says Yes #ListenUpNG

And they finally walk down the aisle having pledged to live happily ever after when they said “I do” #ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @sobafemi

Nothing else matters now cos we want to let the whole world know that the best thing has just happened to us…”We are Married” #ListenUpNG

…That was 1,2,5,10,15 years ago…..
#ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @Bunmi_Sobowale @abbeysonprisca @jiggahigh @ZurielOlowe @Dabiraipoola

Now fast-track to today. Reality check…Hello!!! Its August 19, 2016. Where am I???
#ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @AskRDJ @BelloTobi0

– 3 kids!! For some 2 or 1…
– Always/Mostly tired…
– Went to the salon for a pedicure 2 years ago…
#ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG

– The last time I cut/plait my hair was 4 months ago…
– The once Tall,Dark and handsome is now pot-bellied and out of shape…
#ListenUpNG

Some have become the wrapper tying wife that boo comes to meet at home everyday!! No fun…No excitement…
#ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @nkyru

And you wonder to yourself…”Was this the Husband/Wife I married X number of years ago?? How did we end up like this?? #ListenUpNG

This seems to be where a number of us are…at crossroads and confused about what to do having said “I do”
#ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG

It seems that the once blazing fire of love and passion that burned so brightly has over time lost its spark… #ListenUpNG #DearWifey

There is definitely something that we have lost touch with and that I choose to call our A Programming #LIstenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @jiggahigh

Why is it that while we were dating and in love, we were ready  to go the extra mile than now we are married? #ListenUpNG @bosefawehinmi

Could it be that at the time, there was something that kept us going…a goal or vision perhaps!!! #ListenUpNG @bosefawehinmi @Bosetiti

How is it that we have suddenly become too busy and occupied to invest even more in this lifelong relationship called marriage.
#ListenUpNG

You might say “I’m not married so how does this apply to me?” Follow closely and learn the lessons so you don’t become a victim
#ListenUpNG

So here we are in this place where the reality of our relationship has become “See Finish”
#ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @PHTafia @abbeysonprisca

“He is my Husband/Wife so she should understand now???”
Lack of communication has become the other of the day…
#ListenUpNG @PHTafia

We are now strange Bed-fellows. So much distance between us. No Longer are the Boyfriend/Girlfriend but Husband/Wife so it no longer matters

It almost feels like the situation is irredeemable but i want to assure you that help is available #ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG  @PHTafia

So what can I begin to do to change my current state where I seem to have lost all my fire?? #ListenUpNG @KemiOdutayo @PHTafia @SalehPeace

1. Change your thinking. Renew your mind and the way you see yourself in your marriage or relationships. #ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @PHTafia

Remember…Your transformation is tied to the imagination of your heart!!!
#ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG @Kemitalkin @PHTafia @KemiOdutayo @nkyru

What you see and picture or envision ultimately becomes your reality. Begin to describe what you want to see in your marriage.
#ListenUpNG

2. Be
– Deliberate
– Intentional
– Conscious
– Ready
Start installing new programs and systems that fuel your relationship.
#ListenUpNG

Start dating again & look for fun things you could do together that reignites passion. Don’t be too busy to spend time together #ListenUpNG

Go out of your way to become spontaneous and do things that your partner loves and would really appreciate about you!! #ListenUpNG

3. Change your look from old and haggard to something worth looking forward to while coming back from the office!! Lol #ListenUpNG

Women…Please go and remove that sponge you call weave-on and get your hair done right!While you are at it…loose some pounds
#ListenUpNG

Men…Its time to do something about that cave-man look of yours!! Get a shave and hit the gym too!!! #ListenUpNG @KemiOdutayo @PHTafia

The Golden Rule says “Do unto others what you want done to you”. No sense pointing fingers when 3 point right back at you #ListenUpNG

4. Delete every program that has disempowered you over the years.Forgive and let go of hurts and pain from the past.
#ListenUpNG @PHTafia

Be at cause and not at effect. Take ownership of your life and its outcomes. Determine your desired future. #ListenUpNG @KemiOdutayo @nkyru

Consciously begin to say what you want to see in your nearest future. Have a vision and a desired end goal in mind.
#ListenUpNG #DearWifeyNG

5. Polish yourself up where you need to. Counsellors, Image Consultants(Like me…LOL) and Therapists are available to help.
#ListenUpNG

6. Believe it is possible. What you once had can become your reality again. If you can’t see it, you can’t get it.
#ListenUpNG @KemiOdutayo

Shoes don’t need only one coat of #polish to keep them going. A new sheen every now and then keeps it looking good.
#ListenUpNG @KemiOdutayo

And that’s a wrap…Thank you all for listening
#ListenUpNG ~ @nneomaeffanga1 https://t.co/T0GE4jyLYk https://t.co/fqxbflMzu6

@nneomaeffanga1 has shown us that looking and feeling good after 3 or more kids and several years of marriage IS DOABLE!???? #ListenUpNG

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@nneomaeffanga1 Thanks for making this edition of #ListenUpNG awesome! Shout out to all my guests as well! https://t.co/vYKA6FQrBT

Till I come your way next week Friday with another inspiring session on #ListenUpNG Wk35, watch out for the link to the compiled tweets

#Sneakpeek #ListenUpNG Wk35 with @akanski Make it a date! Let’s come at it from the feminine angle…???? https://t.co/ym3ztZfM8u

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Shout out to all my guests on #ListenUpNG August Edition… Thanks for making this edition awesome! Good night folks https://t.co/7VQbjpZHJV

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