#ListenUpNG Wk29 (PART 2): MYTHS SINGLES BELIEVE

1) Hello everyone! This is the concluding part of the tweetcast, #ListenUpNG Wk29: MYTHS SINGLES BELIEVE

2) The next one is Myth 6: Sex between engaged couple is ok, acceptable! This is a great promoter of myth 4 ~ Love is blind!

3) #DearBaeNG #DearBooNG #ListenUpNG Premarital Sex will blindside you! It will make you turn a blind eye to red flags in your relationship!

4) #DearBaeNG #DearBooNG It will make you have a permanent and intense feeling for a temporary and unworthy suitor in your life. AVOID IT!

5) #DearBaeNG #DearBooNG I beg of you! Premarital sex has truncated many marital destinies, refuse to let yours be part of the statistics! #ListenUpNG

6) Myth 7: This is very similar to myth 6 where both were indulging in sex because they felt they were as good as married.

7) #ListenUpNG Here, the sole aim is to test sexual compatibility! To ascertain whether #DearBooNG or #DearBaeNG will be proficient in the bedmatic act.

8) This will do more harm than good for many reasons you may come to regret later on in life! Risk of comparison, STDs and soul ties. #ListenUpNG

9) Myth 8: The married have sex everyday! When, where and how they want it! Lol! This is also very similar to myth 6&7. #ListenUpNG

10) #DearBaeNG #DearBooNG There is more to marriage than having sex! Granted, this is a very crucial part of the married life. #ListenUpNG

11) However, don’t be delusional that the married life is a continuum of sexual orgy. For one reason or the other, it may not be so! #ListenUpNG

12) So #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG make friendship the basis of your relationship! Learn SELF-CONTROL as a Single; it will serve you well in marriage  #ListenUpNG

13) #DearBaeNG #DearBooNG What you don’t control will end up controlling you! Be in charge of your SEXUALITY #ListenUpNG

14) Myth 9: Love at first sight! “Immediately i saw her/him, i fell hard!” Hmmm. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG Let me ask you some questions!

15) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG ‘Who is mentoring you?’ Who are you listening to, especially in the area of relationship?’

16) Is it telemundos, romance novels, Bollywood or Nollywood? #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

17) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG Has this myth of ‘falling in love at first sight’ become so real to you that you desire it to be your reality?

18) #DearBaeNG Are you one of those that fall for any TDH -tall, dark and handsome guy that cross your path? #DearBooNG #ListenUpNG

19) #DearBooNG #ListenUpNG Or…do you fall for any lady with an hour glass figure and model looks? #DearBaeNG

20) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG Do you take one look at him or her and you believe yourself head over heels in love?

21) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG Do you pay more attention to the ‘container/packaging’ more than the ‘content’?

22) Oh yeah! Don’t get me wrong. There is nothing wrong with your ‘intended’ looking good! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

23) There is nothing wrong with you feeling some attraction and chemistry! Infact you should! *wink* #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

24) These matter as well. But remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

25) In these days of complete makeover for brides, am yet to see an ugly bride! Lol! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

26) Lets check out this scenario ~  You were invited to a buffet. On your way to the table with the tantalizing array of dishes… #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

27) … you sighted a dish that made your mouth salivate. You begin to feel some ‘sweet sensations’. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

28) You have never tasted  this delicacy. You don’t even know the ingredients its made off! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

29) But its aroma and ‘beauty’ made you fall in love with it. You finally got to the table and piled your plate high with your ‘new love’… #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

30) …looking forward to a delicious meal. Taking your first bite, despite your audience, you spit it out without a 2nd thought! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

31) What do you think happened? You were just in love with an idea! The dish remains the same. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

32) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG Same with our ‘crush’. The way she or he looks remain the same. They are exactly the same person!

33) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG You just have a perception of who they are. You were acting based on this perception.

34) But alas, assumption is the lowest level of knowledge. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

35) If you are wise enough to pay attention in the relationship, you will discover before you go ‘too far’… #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

36)… that you two are going in two different directions! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

37) Nevertheless, hurt and heartache are inevitable in such instance because emotions are already involved. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

38) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG If you had taken time to do your due diligence; to know more about your ‘love dish’, you wouldn’t find yourself in a dilemma.

39) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG Lol! That’s why I believe friendship, dating & courtship are essential prelude to walking down the aisle.

40) Myth 10: “There is only one person that God has purposed to be your spouse”. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

41) This implies that if you missed marrying him or her, any other person is not God’s will for your wife! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

42) If you are a believer, do you remember the story of Adam&Eve? Go check it. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

43) God kept bringing  prospective helpmeet to Adam until he approved of Eve as the bone if his bone #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

44) Remember the story of Rebekah too? #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

45) Abram’s servant prayed that the lady that helped to supply water to him and his animals will be the ‘one’
#DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

46) If Rebekah hadn’t obliged, another maiden would have! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

47) In essence, you shouldn’t force yourself on anyone. If it’s meant to be, it will be! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

48) Myth 11: You need to hear an audible voice telling you who to marry. Hmmm. Inasmuch i believe God speaks… #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

48) Myth 11: You need to hear an audible voice telling you who to marry. Hmmm. Inasmuch i believe God speaks… #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

50) …He might speak to U be via a deep impression, thro the scriptures, thro men/women of God, dreams, visions etc #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

51) There is a confidence that accompanies knowing God is with you in your relationships. Seek it! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

52) Myth 12: Marriage is a bed of roses! … And they lived happily ever after. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

53) Don’t go into marriage with unrealistic expectations. Read more in this free download http://ow.ly/3y2ohg #ListenUpNG

54) Myth 13: Follow your heart! Hmmm. I will advice that you take your brain along however! Your heart can deceive you #ListenUpNG

55) Don’t be solely led by FED ~ feelings, emotions and desires. Our hearts are wild. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

56) Don’t proceed in a relationship thinking, “I will change him/ her”. It doesn’t work that way! #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

57) Myth 14: What he/she doesn’t know can’t hurt him or her. Ignorance is bliss. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

58) To ensure you have a good foundation in your home, disclosure of crucial and relevant information is key #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

59) Don’t lure your partner into marriage before disclosing ‘secrets’ that could have influenced his/her decision

60) Your marriage may never recover from such revelations! However wisdom and timing is important. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

61) I will conclude with Myth 15: My first relationship ever MUST end in marriage. #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

62) Pls #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG Debunk this myth! Open your eyes and notice the red flags. Don’t bury your heads in the sand!

63) What you don’t WANT, you don’t WATCH! A broken engagement, though very painful is preferable to a broken marriage #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG

64) #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNG You can read the 1st part of this session (Myth 1-5) here : http://t.co/VCJhzGghFO

65) Kindly retweet and drop your comments. Let’s foster healthy relationships #DearBooNG #DearBaeNG #ListenUpNGwww.kemiodutayo.com

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